More Life Lessons

I'm just going to get right to it and not beat around the bush. These are the things I learned growing up....though I am still growing up and probably will be for the next sixty years or so. Anyway, success will always come with failures. It has been shown that people who worry about mistakes get paralyzed by it and not go on. Those that are relaxed about doing badly, soon learn to do well and succeed. Speaking of success, people tend to believe that it matters what others think of them. First of all it is the important people, like your boss, that you have to worry about. Second of all, stop letting hypotheses about other people's hypotheses about you run your life. Think about it. Now on to beauty. You really think all that matters? Yes, the good looking people get preferential treatment in most situations but even though everyone is looking at them, they are never seen. Do you really want someone to marry your waistline and not that amazing mind that can solve ten different web application issues before breakfast?